Permasalahan Penyesuaian Perkawinan pada Istri Prajurit Angkatan Laut

Nurlita Endah Karunia, Srisiuni Sugoto, Sri Wahyuningsih

Abstract


Pasangan suami dan istri di awal perkawinan menghadapi tuntutan melakukan penyesuaian perkawinan berupa menyelaraskan harapan, peran, sifat dan latar belakang masing-masing individu. Istri prajurit Angkatan Laut harus menghadapi serangkaian penyesuaian perkawinan yang berbeda dengan pasangan suami istri pada umumnya, karena tuntutan pekerjaan suami yang harus menjalani rutinitas berlayar (deployment dan reunion).

Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menggambarkan permasalahan penyesuaian perkawinan yang dialami istri prajurit Angkatan Laut serta faktor-faktor yang memengaruhinya. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode kuantitatif dan kualitatif, yang melibatkan partisipan dengan karakteristik menikah kurang dari lima tahun dan memiliki pengalaman ditinggal berlayar oleh suami. Hasil dari penelitian ini menunjukkan bahwa partisipan mengalami permasalahan penyesuaian perkawinan; permasalahan penyesuaian dengan siklus berlayar pasangan, baik fase sebelum berlayar, saat berlayar hingga fase bertemu kembali; serta ada beberapa beberapa faktor yang turut memengaruhi permasalahan penyesuaian tersebut seperti kepribadian dan harapan yang tidak realistis. 


Keywords


Penyesuaian Perkawinan, Awal Perkawinan, Istri prajurit Angkatan Laut

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